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Daphne’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Non-Hodgkin’s Lymphoma)

Lime Ribbon Non-Hodgkin's LymphomaSeptember of 2007 I had finally had enough. My back had been hurting for a few years, just getting worse- this Dr said this, that one said something else. My primary ordered an MRI after countless CT’s with no answer. Two days later I got a call that I needed to see an oncologist- I had some enlarged lymph nodes. Ok, that scared me a good bit, went to see the oncologist. They did a biopsy and a PET- yup, its non-Hodgkin’s lymphoma – slow growing but EVERYWHERE – like too many nodes involved to even count. But ya know thats not when I started fighting like a girl.

After a few chemos, I could not take the pain I felt all over my body. Somehow this cancer and chemo threw my body into meltdown. The tumor pain was horrid, the vincristine from the chemo was causing nerve and muscle damage. I have fibromyalgia and osteoarthritis so, compounded, I felt like I had been given a life sentence to that firey place below. I had a grandbaby born the following August.  When I heard I was going to be a grandma, well,  I fought like a girl alright – like a girl angry at the thought of not being here for my grandbaby. I had a reason, a BIG reason…and I was not going to lose this round.

I am now a year in regression, one tumor left but not growing. I can’t do alot due to the loss of muscle and the pain from the nerve issues but I can sure fake it and I do when I need to. I am still fighting like a girl and will for the rest of my life. By the way, losing my hair was SO empowering….I realized through this entire battle that I CAN DO ANYTHING! I hope no one here or reading this ever loses their will to fight!!!!

Submitted 9-1-11

This article is intended to convey general educational information and should not be relied upon as a substitute for professional healthcare advice.


  1. Daphne

    sorry about all the typos- YUCK

  2. Debra

    Glad to hear that you are a fighter and that you are not letting this cancer win. I too am a cancer warrior 3 x’s over. Had uterine, ovary and thyroid cancer ….been there done that. We are forever fighters. Keep your head up and continue to fight.

  3. J White

    I know so well how it feels to lose the will to fight but somewhere deep within God gives usthe strenth to fight. We just have to reach deep down and find that will within and keep going. So glad u found ur fighbt. Keep fighting like a girl and never give up. Not just 4 ur family but. 4 urself too. Still reaching for the fight I lost, but still trying after two years. More power 2 u!

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