The Stages of Grief

Oct
28
2011
grief

I'm taking a subject that wasn't what I had originally planned on writing about but the more I thought about it the more I thought that it's something that I need to share with all of you. The subject is grief. When we think of grief we usually associate that with dying, but that’s not the only time grief happens. You go through the stages of grief when you go through something traumatic, when you've lost something of value or when you've been diagnosed with a life changing disease.  Grief comes in five stages, they usually come in an order but sometimes you can be in stage 4 and revert back to stage 1 or something like that but either way you go through them. This past semester in college I had a class and we were discussing the stages of grief and my teacher pointed out that it didn't just mean for people that were dying or that had loved ones die. After I read about it in my textbook I realized that I had been through the grief stages more than once. Stage 1- … [Read more...]

Linda’s Fight Like A Girl Story (Anxiety Disorder, Depression)

Apr
10
2011
Linda - Anxiety Disorder Depression Story

My life changed in 1998 when I started to just cry and cry and cry and not keeping home at home and work at work.  It all turned into one mess. I was a mom, I owned my own home and still do - a single mom with a man younger than me who left me due to not wanting to hurt me anymore even though he said he would never leave me and loved me so much and would never leave… I can’t even ponder how many nights I sat on the porch crying at what living as a single mom was like - having my son’s dad leave and having another man not wanting to deal with the issues of having a child because it was not his thing. After talking to him recently, he says he listened to his friends and was wrong for leaving us. The relationship was not all peaches and cream anyways.  He used to do some things to me that a woman should never put up with - me, vulnerable all my life due to my childhood, did just that. I lived a life with 8 siblings. We had the most wonderful mom in the world and the most hard … [Read more...]

INSPIRATION…

Mar
21
2011
Inspiration

It has been a while but I am back. I apologize for the lack of posts but the truth is I was in a yucky place and just could not dig deep enough to find the inspiration to show up and post. I apologize for that because this blog is my responsibility and I do take it seriously. When a lot of things happen at once you really need to fine tune your coping skills. It’s an actual job, something you must be diligent with. I failed in that task and my depression and pity party got the best of me. I hate being a Betty Buzzkill, its not who I am. Its part of who I am but only a small part and one I struggle to keep in check. When I get that way I find it a lot harder to make myself reach out to others, I don’t like to spread negativity. So in my feeble attempt at protecting all of you by way of isolation, I had let the blog take a back seat and for that I am truly sorry and will make sure it won’t happen again! That being said, I decided to make this blog topic about INSPIRATION! I am … [Read more...]