Personal Power Stories

Nita’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Myalgic Encephalomyolitis aka ME)

May
13
2012
Nita's Story (Breast Cancer) LR

My name is Nita. Until 2003, I was a very busy legal assistant in Texas, a guardian ad litem for FOCAS (Foster Children’s Advocate Services), a sunday school teacher in our church’s Youth Department for 12 years. I was in a BUNCO club in my neighborhood and ran a successful small embroidery business out of my home. I am married to a retired police detective. I have two grown children and 5 wonderful grandchildren. The law firm I worked for at the time allowed a dangerous situation to continue for six months from the date of my first report of the situation. Once action was finally taken, my health slowly began to decline. I have had every (autoimmune) diagnosis in the book since that time. In April 2011, my P.C. sent me to a specialist. Four days before my first appointment with the new doctor, I began to collapse. Since my diagnosis mid-May 2011, most of what I know about Myalgic Encephalomyolitis, HHV6 and Lime Disease has come from my own research. Doctors don’t know much … [Read more...]

Jennifer’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Breast Cancer)

May
13
2012
Jennifer's Story (Breast Cancer) LR

I was diagnosed with breast cancer on Febuary 15th, 2011. I am a diabetic, have neuropathy, and going through chemo and radiation. My heart goes out to everyone going through this horrid disease!! I will survive - it will just take a long time! Jennifer Kentucky Submitted 10-19-11 The informational content of this article is intended to convey a personal experience and, because every person’s experience is unique, should not be relied upon as a substitute for professional healthcare advice. … [Read more...]

Thalia’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Breast Cancer)

May
12
2012
Thalia's Story (Breast Cancer)

My Story: Pink Combat I grew up proud of the Special Forces Dagger on the breadbox. I knew where the metals were hidden in the drawer. These markers of bravery never spoken of—beyond reference to the elusive Green Beret— A symbol of heroes not awarded, to a pilot, without marked time, boots on the ground. The Green Beret—referenced more often—than Purple Hearts awarded and lessons of war. No, there was no talk of bravery or what it took to fight a war with an invisible enemy. My hero has ribbons and scars that are rarely seen, if you don’t count his knee or inner core. That’s where there’s a mark, for the crew he saved as the pilot, landing ‘the Bird’. And in a back closet, in a room rarely visited; There hangs a uniform of his best friend—another symbol of battle—to preserve. As I grew; I resented those people, flaunting their ribbons and service awards. They couldn’t be real heroes; because REAL heroes kept ribbons locked … [Read more...]

Katie’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Anorexia)

May
10
2012
Katie's Story (Anorexia)

Since I was 13 years old, I have struggled with weight and body image issues. No matter how skinny I was I still felt fat. I couldn't look in mirrors. I began starving myself and got down to a dangerous 99 pounds. After a talk with my parents I put weight back on but the feelings of being fat and disgusting didn’t go away. A couple of years went by in which I would starve myself during the week, binge eat on the weekends, and spend all night Sunday crying about being a failure and that I would always be "fat". I hit bottom again when I managed to starve myself to 114 pounds at the age of 21 (I am 5'7" so it was definitely too skinny). I finally decided to seek help and uncovered things about my past that I had been holding onto all these years and how they have caused my weight issues. Thanks to support from my family and especially my sister I have officially kicked my eating disorder! I just want everyone to know that you are absolutely beautiful no matter your weight and … [Read more...]

Earlene’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Breast Cancer)

May
10
2012
Earlene's Story (Breast Cancer)

In Oct of 2004 I had my yearly mammogram. The following January I felt a knot in my right breast. Within six days I had a biopsy. Six days after that I was told that I had breast cancer. I immediately headed to a breast surgeon. I had the breast removed, never had any problems, never had pain. After six weeks, I had eight precautionary chemotherapy treatments. Everything went well with this because I had LOTS and LOTS of support. Not just from my family but from a lady I met when I was diagnosed. She became my mentor and still is. I had lost my husband of 41 years to lung cancer in May of 2004. He was a fighter and had always been a very strong influence in my life, but especially when I was told I had cancer. He taught me to be a fighter and that is WHAT I AM. You must have lots and lots of FAITH IN GOD to get through something like this, but you also HAVE TO BE A FIGHTER!  The picture I am sending was made at our ASHLEY COUNTY BREAST CANCER AWARENESS dinner last fall. I AM A … [Read more...]

Terry’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Ovarian Cancer)

May
06
2012
Terry's Story (Ovarian Cancer) LR

I am a 46 year old ovarian cancer survivor. I was diagnosed in 2008 with stage 3C ovarian cancer. I was 43 at the time and I had just gotten over the flu in 2007.  I started having some pains in my side that caused me to double over and actually cry. My youngest son and my boyfriend were both here with me when this had happened. I originally thought I was gaining weight because I was getting too heavy around the mid-section and figured "ok, I will go on a diet and lose weight". Well, it turned out that wasn't the cause at all. After having the pain for 2 weeks, my boyfriend suggested that maybe it was cysts - that I had previously had - coming back. I made a doctor's appointment and went in.  He ordered an ultrasound and it showed 2 cysts - one on each ovary.  On the left one, it was a follicular (water filled) cyst and, on the right, it was a porcupine looking one that had started squeezing my ovary so much that it cut off the blood supply and caused me to keel over in … [Read more...]

Barbara’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Breast Cancer)

Apr
27
2012
Barbara's Story (Breast Cancer)

I was diagnosed when I was 42 years old. I was hesitant to go to the doctor because like so many women I didn't think it would happen to me. Boy was I wrong! I was at stage 3 - already in the muscle and lymph nodes. Had a mastectomy on the right side, 8 chemo treatments, 31 radiation treatments and numerous operations. But with every step I kept reminding myself that I had to endure it all to live! I refused to be defined by this disease! I knew that God could and would use me and my experience to bring good to someone, somewhere! I am a 3 year survivor and doing really well! I am very aware and appreciative of each and every day I am given. I wish I could hold the hands of women after me that face this disease and its treatment and help them through - let them know that they are NOT alone and they CAN fight and WIN! Barbara Arkansas Submitted 10-16-11 The informational content of this article is intended to convey a personal experience and, because every person’s … [Read more...]

Patricia’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Psoriatic Arthritis)

Apr
27
2012
Patricia's Story (Psoriatic Arthritis) LR

I have suffered with psoriatic arthritis for many years but was not diagnosed until 2010. I have problems with my knees and with my hip joints and I am 45 years old. I also found out that same year that I have fibromyalgia in my shoulders. When it is cold I have a hard time getting around and can barely walk. On my good days I can walk for maybe 1/2 mile then have to sit and rest for an hour or so. If there is anyone out there who is suffering the same and can recommend some treatment please let me know. Patricia Texas Submitted 10-16-11 The informational content of this article is intended to convey a personal experience and, because every person’s experience is unique, should not be relied upon as a substitute for professional healthcare advice. … [Read more...]

Amy’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Breast Cancer)

Apr
25
2012
Amy's Story 2 (Breast Cancer) LR

I was twenty nine when I was diagnosed with stage 2B breast cancer. I was in complete shock. Cancer does not run in my family and I thought I was super healthy. I ate good food, did yoga, meditated, and so forth. It didn't matter. Cancer does not discriminate. Since then I have had a bi-lateral mastectomy, chemo and radiation. It has been a crazy journey but I have met some awesome women along the way - most young like me! Here is a letter I wrote to the cancer cells: Dear Mr. Cancer Cells, I am writing to tell you to suck an egg, go play in traffic, and eff yourself. I do not care which order you do these things as long as they are done. As you know, you and I have a love/hate relationship. You thought you could come in and invade my boob and then my body. Well, you did a great job trying, I will give you that. But I spotted you before it got too serious. You have taught me a lot so far which means I can't completely hate you. I will tell you what you have done to make me … [Read more...]

Pam’s Fight Like a Girl Story (Breast Cancer)

Apr
17
2012
Pam's Story (Breast Cancer) LR

I was 45 years old when I was diagnosed with stage II B breast cancer. I had had a mammogram 2 years earlier and they saw a spot, was biopsied, and the doctor told me then that it wasn't cancer but he was pretty positive it would come back within five years and be cancerous. Low and behold, two years later it did. I had a mastectomy, went through the chemo and radiation, then about a year later had reconstruction which did not work. I still have to wear a prosthesis. I contracted staph infection twice so implants will not work. What has gotten me through this journey is my faith, family and friends. I will continue to fight like a girl the rest of my life! Pam Missouri Submitted 10-16-11 The informational content of this article is intended to convey a personal experience and, because every person’s experience is unique, should not be relied upon as a substitute for professional healthcare advice. … [Read more...]